Trust the unfolding of your new reality from the inside out and let go of the idea that what you want is still being held hostage by your "old obstacle."

At first, it may look like nothing is changing and that the same obstacles, breakdowns, and disappointments haunt you. This is the time to practice not biting the bate of your old trigger by noticing the "exposed wire" feeling. Instead of running away, you stay right where you are watching for th...

One of the harder parts of transformation is admitting failure where you did EVERYTHING right. The old reality was set up on a flawed foundation. It is something we work really hard to overcome or compensate for. And sometimes we do everything right. We also suffer, sacrifice, and make compromise...

There is a moment in the inquiry journey when you get to see an island of clarity. But outside that small island, as soon as you start even thinking about the world or venturing out into it, there are triggers and anxiety. When we are in that small space of connection to oneness, no real ideas oc...

When you have entered into a space in your awareness where you clearly see a connection to oneness you may feel uneasy about how easy it actually feels. You will want to have more to do, more to "hold on to", as the old reality is real -- doh!-- ts still very much active, you know how to operate ...

In lesson I talk about the part of the journey when, having seen the truth, the new possibility, you find yourself in the old anxieties again. Most people who go through this expect that there will be a moment where the old world will seem unappealing and it will be easy not to go there. This mom...

Identity thoughts and assumptions are not just false beliefs we hold about ourselves, they are deep foundations of everything that gets included in a particular reality or pattern. Think of it as a filter, or requirement that everyone who participates in the reality must meet before they even get...

When you feel good or you want to do something that feels good and "solid" to you now but your mind is questioning it it means that the mind is still clinging to the old Identity. Learning to trust the good feeling is a process as is learning to recognize the part of us that said it left, but is ...